The next time you plan to wear a new pair of heels or a brand new suit jacket that just fits if you’re standing ‘just the right way’ to a networking event, I urge you to think again. There is nothing flattering about bloody heels or a constricting jacket.
I understand the desire to wear what you consider to be the most beautiful articles of clothing you own during networking events. It’s an opportunity to showcase your personal style, after all. Events aren’t always held at hotel ballrooms, they’re held at lounges and restaurants, which means you don’t have to wear stereotypical office wear. You can show who you are through what you are wearing.
Having said that, what do you think it says about you if the clothing you wear causes you to continually check to see that you’re still as composed as when you arrived Consider how awkward it would look if you needed to continually fuss with some trinket or decal attached to your clothes. You’d be subconsciously creating a wall between you (the uncomfortable, fidgeting newbie) and everyone else (the confident, comfortable-in-their-own-skin pro’s). There’s a fine line between looking stylish and looking ridiculous. I’m not here to clarify exactly what that looks like, but I will simply remind you that the purpose of attending networking events is to make new connections – not to put on a fashion show.
Do yourself a favor and wear comfortable clothing when networking. Being physically comfortable will make you feel more confident and genuine, which in turn makes you more approachable.
Posted by Geraldine Sangalang 
